Unthankfulness. Thanksgiving, Christmas—and Greed. Update.

For “Scripture Sunday”, The Sunday before Thanksgiving.

Unthankfulness, a Sign of Perilous Times

“Thanksgiving and its opposite don’t seem that important to most people. But God looks at things differently. Ingratitude is one of the symptoms of society on the brink.

The apostle Paul warned of terrible, stressful times to come before Christ’s return:

“But know this, that in the last days perilous times will come: For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy” (2 Timothy 3:1-2, emphasis added throughout). His list of destructive end-time attitudes goes on, but let’s focus on “unthankful.”

Why is ingratitude a symptom of a sick and self-destructive society? Why is it growing, and how does it harm us, while gratitude helps us?

Predictably unthankful

Why is ingratitude increasing in this secular, humanistic society? Paul wrote an insightful analysis of people who ignore the evidence of our Creator:

“For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even His eternal power and Godhead, so that they are without excuse, because, although they knew God, they did not glorify Him as God, nor were thankful, but became futile in their thoughts, and their foolish hearts were darkened” (Romans 1:20-21).

People who do not acknowledge God are obviously not going to be thankful to Him. Thoughts that do not take into account the ultimate reality of the existence and plan of God are vain thoughts.

If you think you are just an animal, yet paradoxically think you are the master of your own destiny, your thoughts will reach no further than your life span (Psalm 146:4). They will be fleeting and futile, and you will be blind to the spiritual realities that last for eternity.

An ancient case study

We can see this in the life of King Nebuchadnezzar.

God had warned the king about the results of the prideful path he was on. “They shall drive you from men, your dwelling shall be with the beasts of the field, and they shall make you eat grass like oxen. They shall wet you with the dew of heaven, and seven times [years] shall pass over you, till you know that the Most High rules in the kingdom of men, and gives it to whomever He chooses” (Daniel 4:25).

But Nebuchadnezzar did not heed the warning, and 12 months later he was again idolizing his own power and wealth. He said, “Is not this great Babylon, that I have built for a royal dwelling by my mighty power and for the honor of my majesty?” (verse 30).

From that very hour the prophecy was fulfilled, and Nebuchadnezzar became like a wild animal. He ate grass, and his nails grew like bird claws. This poetic justice eventually transformed his haughty pride to praise.

“Now I, Nebuchadnezzar, praise and extol and honor the King of heaven, all of whose works are truth, and His ways justice. And those who walk in pride He is able to put down” (verse 37).

Being unthankful belies an underlying rejection of God. If we don’t recognize what He has done for us, we put something else in His place.

Problems with ingratitude

Being unthankful belies an underlying rejection of God. If we don’t recognize what He has done for us, we put something else in His place. Not only does this demonstrate that we are disconnected from reality, but it generally means we are making a god out of ourselves.

If we ignore the blessings of God and the contributions of others, we create blind spots that keep us from seeing the whole picture. These blind spots can prevent us from perceiving the pitfalls in our path. It’s a law of the universe that pride goes before a fall (Proverbs 16:18).

Self-centeredness and ingratitude grate on the nerves of those around us, leading to lack of intimacy and to isolation. Unthankfulness can poison relationships and prevent new ones from forming.

Benefits of thanksgiving

On the other hand, gratitude has many benefits that are now being confirmed by science.

John Tierney summarized some of the recent research in an article in The New York Times:

“Cultivating an ‘attitude of gratitude’ has been linked to better health, sounder sleep, less anxiety and depression, higher long-term satisfaction with life and kinder behavior toward others. … A new study shows that feeling grateful makes people less likely to turn aggressive when provoked. …

“Why does gratitude do so much good? ‘More than other emotion, gratitude is the emotion of friendship,’ Dr. [Michael] McCullough says. ‘It is part of a psychological system that causes people to raise their estimates of how much value they hold in the eyes of another person. Gratitude is what happens when someone does something that causes you to realize that you matter more to that person than you thought you did.’”

It’s the Golden Rule in action (Matthew 7:12). We all like to be appreciated, and gratitude acts as a lubricant in human relationships. It helps us make friends and strengthen friendships and family bonds. Being thankful to others pays off in making our own lives more pleasant and happy.

And thankfulness can help build our relationship with God as well. He is a loving Father, and He wants what is best for us. That includes wanting us to have the benefits of a positive outlook on life (Philippians 4:8) and a proper perspective on our blessings and challenges.

Freed from the blind spots and pitfalls of pride and ingratitude, we can see our future clearly based on the ultimate reality. God made us and has given us everything we have. Beyond that, He has a purpose for us that transcends the troubles of this age. He wants us to think like He does—to appreciate what is good and to give.

God owns everything and has given us everything we have. He even gave the life of His Son so that we can be forgiven of our sins! So what can we really give to Him? Our thanks!

“Oh, give thanks to the Lord, for He is good! For His mercy endures forever” (Psalm 107:1).”  From:   https://lifehopeandtruth.com/prophecy/end-times/unthankfulness/?

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Thanksgiving, Christmas—and Greed

“So, I can’t help but wonder, am I the only person struck by this? I’m talking about the paradox of this time of the year, the approximately one month from Thanksgiving to Christmas. I just find it amazing!

Here’s what I’m talking about: the fourth Thursday in November, the wonderful national holiday celebrated in the United States of America—Thanksgiving Day. What’s it all about? Gratitude, thankfulness, acknowledgement of divine blessing.

Here’s what President Abraham Lincoln, sometimes referred to as the father of the Thanksgiving holiday, proclaimed back in 1863:

“The year that is drawing toward its close has been filled with the blessings of fruitful fields and healthful skies. To these bounties, which are so constantly enjoyed that we are prone to forget the source from which they come, others have been added, which are of so extraordinary a nature that they cannot fail to penetrate and soften the heart which is habitually insensible to the ever-watchful providence of Almighty God. … No human counsel hath devised, nor hath any mortal hand worked out these great things. They are the gracious gifts of the Most High God, who while dealing with us in anger for our sins, hath nevertheless remembered mercy.”

He then went on to “set apart and observe the last Thursday of November next as a Day of Thanksgiving and Praise to our beneficent Father who dwelleth in the heavens.” He recommended “offering up the ascriptions justly due to Him for such singular deliverances and blessings.”

Isn’t that wonderful? Gratitude. Humility. Recognition of God’s merciful blessings and favor. Never mind that for far too many Americans in the 150 years since that proclamation, Thanksgiving Day has devolved into little more than “turkey day,” or a day to watch football. At least it started out right, as a day of thanksgiving.

But then the paradox. This year it didn’t even wait till “Black Friday,” the day after Thanksgiving. For many retail establishments, it began before Thanksgiving Day itself: “Buy, buy, buy!” “Grab, grab, grab!” “Get, get, get!” Okay, so maybe it’s just because I’m a little older and bothered more by these things. Or maybe it actually is even more crass, even more aggressive this year. But this annual orgy of greed and grab seems to be more offensive and unpleasant this year than usual.

An example: At a Wal-Mart store in Elkin, North Carolina, fights broke out as one crazed shopper violently grabbed and shoved in a frantic consumerist push. For what? A TV set! And it didn’t even wait till the day after Thanksgiving. It was Thanksgiving night! (). And this is about gratitude?

And so it goes on, just as it does every year, for one whole unpleasant month. Spend, spend and more spend. Stuff, stuff and more stuff. Grab and grab and grab—even with a little violence, if necessary. And for what? A day that supposedly commemorates the birth of the Savior of humanity, the

One who gave His life for all humankind.

Leave aside for the moment the fact that Christmas isn’t even mentioned in the Bible. Leave aside the fact that it has pre-Christian origins. Leave aside the fact that it’s really a pagan festivity, baptized under the banner of Christ.

Leave all that aside, and you’re still left with that grotesque contradiction, a month ending in a holiday that supposedly epitomizes the Christian way of life, but that really seems to culminate four weeks of greed and coveting. How sad!

Am I the only one? No, I’m really glad that I’m not. Most of my friends are aware of the non-biblical roots of Christmas, and they do their best to avoid all the commercialism and ugliness of a celebration that has become little more than one giant retail binge.”       From: https://lifehopeandtruth.com/speaking-of/thanksgiving-christmas-and-greed/

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Upate.

Two doctor’s appointments this week cut into our work schedule. One for Zack, my helper and neighbor, and one at the eye clinic for pre-op measuring my eye for my cataract surgery on the 29th.

Jay wanted to work one day too, so he and Zack put three of my heavy tube-type TV’s in my van.  I was going to take them to Spring to the recycling center, at $10 disposal fee each.  Then the night before my eye appointment I thought I would list them as FREE on Craigslist.  The next morning the internet was out, so after my eye appointment I went to the library to answer the emails there. Several people were after the TVs, but only one came through, so he got them from me while I was still in Conroe.  So finally, I have my big flat screen TV working in the living room.

Then I bought a metal barrel for burning the pine straw, so we drilled holes in the bottom, put it on cement blocks and now have it set up in an inconspicuous place at the back of my house.  We are having to go slow with it as we have to burn the paint off the barrel little by little so to not make a bad smell.

For the church potluck I made some Grass-fed Beef into a Tomato-free Sauce for Spaghetti with Italian Seasonings.  I took some whole wheat pasta with me and cooked it there before church, and kept it hot in a colander over some hot water.  Also, I had some very spicy dip and didn’t know what to do with it, because I can’t eat spicy.  Then I came up with the idea of making into Spicy Broccoli Slaw.  Of course, the people who like spicy, liked it.  Several winter squashes had been washed, not dried, and cooked in crockpots, so I took them, too.  For me, it is easier to cook them in a crockpot rather than risk getting hurt trying to peel their hard skins off. There weren’t so many people at church this time, so we froze a lot of the left-overs for another time.

The Bible readings were Psa. 100 and 92, Gen. 12:1-17:27, Isa. 40:27-41-16, Rom. 4:1-25, and the Teaching was “Not A Nice day In Israel” about how the Israelites are being bombarded with 400+ rockets, and the descendants of Isaac and Ishmael are still fighting.

We cleaned my keyboard and now my “d” doesn’t work.  Each time you see one I have had to copy and paste the “d”, and there are lots of them.

We were going to have a freeze, so Zach and I moved all my potted aloe plants into the greenhouse just in time.  Then it warmed up to mid seventies again after a couple of days.

Veteran’s Day. This Is the Way... "I Will Fight No More Forever". Update.

For “Scripture Sunday”:

“Happy Veterans Day.  We honor our servicemen and women for their sacrifices with prayers for veterans.

Veterans Day first began as a celebration to mark the anniversary of the end of World War I. It was known as Armistice Day during its original year of 1918 when the Armistice with Germany went into effect. However, it was renamed Veterans Day in 1954 to include all veterans, from both World War II and the Korean War, which both ended in 1945 and 1953, respectively. According to History.com, “In 1954, President Dwight D. Eisenhower officially changed the name of the holiday from Armistice Day to Veterans Day.”

Veterans Day is a day to honor veterans but is not to be confused with Memorial Day, which is in May. Veterans Day celebrates those who served in the military, while Memorial Day honors those who died while serving in the military.

According to Infoplease, 18.8 million are veterans as of 2015. Of that number, 1.6 million are female, 11.6% are black, and 6.8 million of them served in Vietnam. 3.9 million of veterans have service-related disabilities.

This Veterans Day, be sure to thank a veteran for their service.”

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A Closer Look at Veteran’s Day

“Yet, here I sit - in the wealthiest nation on the earth - free to attend the church of my choice, to own as many Bibles as I can afford, to choose my own husband (or choose not to marry), to vote for the leaders of my government and even write a letter to the editor of the newspaper when I disagree with the decisions they make.

And why can I enjoy these freedoms? Because the men and women in our armed forces understand that freedom has a cost. And since the birth of our nation, brave men and women have stepped forward, weighed the cost and chosen to lay down their lives in service to their fellow countrymen.

Thank you just isn't enough. We need to pass these truths on to future generations - and Veterans Day is a great place to start.

"Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends." - John 15:13” From: https://www.crosswalk.com/faith/spiritual-life/a-closer-look-at-veterans-day-1295997.html

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This Is the Way... "I Will Fight No More Forever"

“The cool days of November are upon us. Since I was a lad, this time of the year always causes me to think of the echoing pronouncement, “It was on the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month that the guns went silent.” In the Commonwealth nations, this is often rendered Armistice or Remembrance Day. In America, it is commonly called Veterans Day.

This is the day the guns went silent on the Western Front of what was then known as the “Great War.” Amazingly, it has been over 100 years since our grandfathers and great-grandfathers fought on the plains of Europe. It wasn’t supposed to be a great war. It simply wasn’t supposed to last long. But the complicated quilt of alliances that reacted to the assassination of the archduke of Austria at Sarajevo would have it no other way.

Surely, the wise men could have stopped it. Or certainly the cousins who occupied the thrones of England, Germany and Russia could have handled this in a backroom family way. But, well, the rest is history. Perhaps the various politicians and nations had to get the tensions that had been building for decades out of their system. And, as is so often the way with war, the troops were still fighting in the accustomed manner of the last century’s conflicts and were not prepared for the latest technological advances.

Charging horses were no match for newly devised automatic weaponry, and the big guns of war would do their job. The dead deserved a reason for dying.  As the “Great War” unfolded, many sought a great vision and hope around which humanity might rally. Certainly the dead deserved a reason for dying. Thus, this global eruption would be framed as “The War to End All Wars.” Certainly a better world would emerge!  It simply had to be. “  Continued at: https://www.ucg.org/world-news-and-prophecy/this-is-the-way-i-will-fight-no-more-forever-0

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Update.

Not an awful lot went on this week, though some things changed.  The small fridge that was in the guest house (now mini-house) wasn’t working right.  So Jay and I loaded it up in my van with all his deceased mother’s clothes.  Then we found out that the appliance repair man now charges $30 to diagnose, and then that comes off your bill if you get it fixed.  I didn’t have any plans to use it when I move into the mini-house, so I was going to sell it.  I had bought that fridge new, many years ago, but even when working it wasn’t worth much, so I took it across the scales, and just sold it for scrap.  The consignment shop didn’t want Jay’s mother’s clothes, so we took them to the Women’s Center in Conroe. What they can’t use, they sell in their thrift shop.

Then, wouldn’t you know it, I was given a nice big, two door, working fridge.  They wanted it out of their storage unit to make room.  I knew it cooled properly, because I put thermometers in the fridge and freezer before it was loaded in my van.  But it couldn’t be put it in the mini-house yet, because it will take two strong folks to get it up the steps, even though I have an appliance handtruck.  So, until the floor covering is in, it is in the carpert wrapped up in a black tarp trying to look inconspicuous, as it is against the restrictions.

I also bought another flat screen TV pretty cheap because they didn’t have the remote.  Here, we have to have a cable box which comes with a remote, so it doesn’t make that much difference to me.  I tried it out on my computer, but it is just like my laptop, the screen isn’t high like on my monitor and I was scrolling all the time to see everything.  I didn’t like that, so I decided I will keep my desktop after all, if all laptops do that too.

For the church potluck, I made two potato dishes, one with grated potatoes made into fritters, and the other was roasted potatoes.  Then I took some cooked angus beef and veggies out of the freezer as I just didn’t have time to cook anything else.  I have really been trying to keep my nose to the computer grindstone, getting stuff listed for sale, but things aren’t selling very well right now.

The Bible readings were Gen. 6:9-11:32, Isa. 54:1-55:15, Mat. 24:36-46, and 1 Pet. 3: 18-22.  The teaching was about the “Search For God” and “to seek His Kingdom first and all these things will be added”. Mat. 6:33.

The weather has changed considerably.  One day I was wearing a sleeveless shirt, and the next it was a pullover, sweats and jacket day.

How Should I Talk to My Kids After One of Their Friends Have Died? The Sermon on the Mount. Update.

 

For “Scripture Sunday”:

How Should I Talk to My Kids After One of Their Friends Have Died? 

“Our earthly bodies are but a temporary dwelling that will one day be folded up and put away to await a permanent and glorious residence to come.

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After a loss of a friend, add hope to your child’s sorrow.

Some young people become bitter against God when they have suffered the death of a friend. Yet others who have endured the same will continue to love and serve God. Have you ever lost a loved one and wondered how God could have allowed them to die? How can we help our children to make sense of this question?

Open the Bible with your kids and use God’s Word to comfort and encourage their troubled hearts.

The difference between those who find hope after a loss of a friend and those who don’t often comes down to whether a person has a sincere and deep trust in God. Trusting that He has a beautiful plan to work all things out for good in the end. As parents, we can and should approach the subject of death with clarity and confidence when discussing it with our children. And then, in the day when it’s needed, they can fall back on the truth to get them through difficult losses.

The apostle Paul gives us a very useful analogy that our kids can understand: “For we know that if our earthly house, this tent, is destroyed, we have a building from God, a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens” (2 Corinthians 5:1). The human body, as a tent, is the illustration Paul uses to explain the death of one of God’s own. Our earthly bodies are but a temporary dwelling that will one day be folded up and put away to await a permanent and glorious residence to come.

As parents, we must remember that the Bible explains clearly that our earthly life is transitory and is only a small stepping stone to an amazing future.

If your kids have been tent camping before, ask the question: “After several days of sleeping on the hard ground with bugs and dirt, were they glad to fold the tent up and head for a warm shower and soft bed at home?” The answer is probably yes.

For the deceased child of God, while their physical tent is folded up for now, one day they will be unfolded by God Himself to experience a wonderful opportunity to live forever in a perfect body, without pain, surrounded by God’s love.

Paul’s words encourage us to turn our focus onto the permanent habitation from heaven: “For in this we groan, earnestly desiring to be clothed with our habitation which is from heaven, if indeed, having been clothed, we shall not be found naked. For we who are in this tent groan, being burdened, not because we want to be unclothed, but further clothed, that mortality may be swallowed up by life” (2 Corinthians 5:2-4).

With this truth, our kids can face death in the present with the confidence that one day their friend’s death will be swallowed up by a beautiful life everlasting!”  Continued at:  https://www.ucg.org/bible-study-tools/bible-questions-and-answers/how-should-i-talk-to-my-kids-after-one-of-their   

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The Sermon on the Mount.

“Nearly 2,000 years ago, Christ preached a profound sermon showing how converted Christians are to live. How essential is the Sermon on the Mount today?

Prayer is so important!

Christ’s words recorded in Matthew chapters 5, 6 and 7 are often called the Sermon on the Mount. The reason for this designation is that Jesus “went up on a mountain” (Matthew 5:1) to deliver this message. Apparently, He did this to make it easier for His audience to hear what He was going to say. An abbreviated account of Christ’s Sermon on the Mount is found in Luke 6:20-49. Although there are slight differences between the two Gospel accounts, these passages provide an excellent overview of the subjects Jesus addressed during His earthly ministry.

According to John R.W. Stott, “The Sermon on the Mount is probably the best-known part of the teaching of Jesus, though arguably it is the least understood, and certainly it is the least obeyed” (The Message of the Sermon on the Mount, 1973, p. 15). Because Matthew’s account is more extensive than the one in Luke, we’ll use it to identify key messages that Jesus delivered for His audience in the first century and for us today.

Sermon on the Mount summary: Beatitudes and application of the law 

Jesus’ sermon begins with a description of those who would be blessed by God. For instance, “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be filled” (Matthew 5:6).

The verses beginning with the word “blessed” (Matthew 5:3-11) are commonly called “Beatitudes”—meaning a state of supreme happiness. In essence, Jesus is stating that these perspectives would become the mental states of mind for all who would become His disciples. For additional study on how you can have these perspectives in your life, read “Beatitudes: Keys to Real Happiness.”

The remainder of the sermon gives more specifics of conversion—how to be a Christian.”    Continued at: https://lifehopeandtruth.com/change/christian-conversion/the-sermon-on-the-mount/

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Update.

My foster cat’s mom was supposed to come to visit her, it would be the first time since the cat, Gracie, was rescued from their house fire.  I waited all day, but she didn’t show up.  Later she texted that she forgot, and then said she had flu and couldn’t talk.  Gracie has bonded to me, follows me around the house, and sleeps on my bed.  I think she was just kept in a room by herself at her own home, away from their dogs, so I don’t know how she will adjust when she goes home. Their house is just about repaired now so she should be going home soon.

On Wednesday, we had another Holy Day at the church, The Last Great Day, or Eighth Day.  It marks the end of The Feast of Tabernacles.  We had plenty of food left over from the Sabbath, but I took some roasted squash, Romaine lettuce and croissants anyway.  The Bible readings were Deut. 14:22-1:17 which is about the Eighth Day, 1 Kings 8:35-5, and Deut. 33:1-34:12, 32:1-33 The Song of Moses.  The Teaching was about The Last Great Day, which Jesus mentioned in John 7:2-37.

Most of the week I have been trying to get things listed for sale, but it is a long, slow process, and I don’t know how I will ever get it all sold.

Zack and I started to connect a new splitter and cable for the TV’s in the mini-house, but he got mad at it and went home.  The next day he didn’t show up for work, so I tried to do what I could by myself.

For the Sabbath I made American Goulash.   It is different from the Hungarian Goulash in as much as pasta is mixed in, whereas in Hungary they have potatoes and carrots, etc. in it.  We had an enjoyable service and even Jay sobered up and came with me.  He is my deceased friend’s son and worked for me for over 20 years.  Everyone was so pleased to see him there again, it’s been a long time. 

The Bible readings were Gen. 1:1-6:8, Isa. 42:5-43:11, John 1:1-14, and because the Bible readings were starting over in Genesis, the pastor also read Psa. 111, and 112.  The Teaching was about Grace.  “For sin shall not have dominion over you.”  John 6:14,15. 

Jay wanted to work today, because he is bored staying at home, so as he was sober, I let him.  We moved the work tables, shelves, table saw etc. out of the mini-house living room, trying to get it ready for floor covering some day.