Friday, February 27, 2026

Every Second Counts

 

Every second counts

There are 24 hours in a day but, for many of us, it sometimes feels like that is not enough. We all have control over how we spend much of our time. The Apostle Paul advised: “See then that you walk circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil” (Ephesians 5:15-16).

Every second counts
Time is such a precious commodity (Image source: Envato)

Three factors may be influencing our decisions relating to how our time is spent.

 

Overcommitment

If we are just too busy and overcommitted we may miss some important opportunities to draw closer to God. Consider Martha, the sister of Mary of Bethany, who was unable to listen to Jesus because she was too involved with food preparation. Her well-intentioned actions denied her the opportunity to learn directly from Christ (Luke 10:38-42).

Distraction

Becoming distracted from what we should be focussing on can also take up our time with less important issues. For example: It’s easy to spend too much time on television, social media, the internet or some hobbies.

In the Parable of the Sower, Jesus explained various reasons why some failed to follow Him, describing the third of these groups as follows: “Now these are the ones sown among thorns; they are the ones who hear the word, and the cares of this world, the deceitfulness of riches, and the desires for other things entering in choke the word, and it becomes unfruitful" (Mark 4:18-19 NKJV).

Some people hear God's Word but get distracted by worldly concerns which can decrease the time we spend studying God’s Word and "choke" our spiritual growth.The writer of Psalm 119 asked God to “turn away my eyes from looking at worthless things, and revive me [give me life] in Your way” (verse 37).

Priorities

Because time is such a precious commodity, we should ask ourselves, "Is there something else that should be given higher priority at this time?" Sometimes writing a list can help us concentrate on what is most important. At the top of our time priority list should be prayer, studying God’s word and meditation, i.e. reflecting on our studies (Psalm 119:15). We also need to see things from God’s perspective and spend time applying what we are learning. One reason we spend time with God in prayer and study so that we will begin to think as He does. Moses knew that taking each day and making it count for good was man’s real purpose and exclaimed in Psalm 90:12“So teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom.” Colossians 4:5 tells us:. "Walk in wisdom toward those who are outside, redeeming the time. Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one." We must always remember that we can never get back or replace a day that has passed. Our lives on this earth don’t last forever. King David knew this when he wrote in Psalms 103:14-16“For he knoweth our frame; he remembereth that we are dust. As for man, his days are as grass: as a flower of the field, so he flourisheth. For the wind passeth over it and it is gone; and the place thereof shall know it no more.” I Chronicles 29:15 expounds the same truth: “For we are strangers before thee, and sojourners, as were all our fathers: our days on the earth are as a shadow, and there is none abiding.’”

The key to redeeming our time is to remember the purpose of our life as Solomon concluded: “Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man” (Ecclesiastes 12:13). Although our years of life are few, Jesus assures us that this life is not the end, but the beginning. Jesus said to Martha, before he raised Lazarus from the dead, “I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live: and whosoever liveth and believeth in me shall never die….” (John 11:25-26).

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Sunday, February 22, 2026

The Unforgiving Heart

 

The unforgiving heart

We have all sinned (violated the laws of God), and are therefore worthy of death (Romans 3:23 and 6:23). Christ assumed the penalty for us when we repent and ask for forgiveness (Acts 2:38; Matthew 6:12). Without forgiveness, we cannot enter into eternal life.

The unforgiving heart
We are to extend forgiveness to others.

God offers us release from the consequences of violating His laws, which is death. In return, He instructs us to extend that same benevolence to our neighbor: "... love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you" (Matthew 5:44). Proverbs 19:11 tells us it is to our “glory to overlook a transgression.” This attitude is diametrically opposed to the human proclivity to seek revenge when we, or our loved ones, have been hurt.

The clear message from God is that we are not to take revenge. God sees all and knows all, and it is His responsibility to avenge wrong deeds : "Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,” says the Lord (Romans 12:19). We are to do the opposite of seeking revenge and, with God’s help, return good for evil: "Not returning evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary blessing, knowing that you were called to this, that you may inherit a blessing" (I Peter 3:9).

Many wonder if an individual needs to express sorrow or attempt to reconcile with us before we forgive him or her. The Bible is clear about this. Even if the person who has offended you does not repent of their offence toward you, you are still obligated to love and treat him or her well. Their failure to repent is an issue between them and God. We are not to hold grudges, seek revenge or speak evil of those who have offended us. Instead we are to extend our love and goodwill.

There are at least two biblical examples of individuals who sought God's forgiveness for others, even when repentance from the offenders was not yet present. Stephen, while being unjustly stoned, asked God not to charge his accusers and murderers with this sin (Acts 7:60). While Christ, during His crucifixion, made the following statement: "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do" (Luke 23:34).

Proverbs 24:17 also instructs us not to rejoice when our enemy experiences misfortune, and Proverbs 25:21 states if our enemy is in need, we should provide those needs. This type of response to evil will invariably produce good and verse 22 states the "Lord will reward you" for this action. If we do not forgive others, then our own forgiveness is in jeopardy: "But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses" (Matthew 6:15).

The ultimate example of forgiveness was Christ's on the cross. He was asking for each one of us to be forgiven because each of us played a part in His death. Jesus Christ has forgiven us for our part in His physical abuse and death, should we not forgive the trespasses of others?